Monday, January 20, 2014

Why.. hello???

Umm, this is little awkward. So it's been a little while and there is a lot of catching up to do, like Kyla's birthday, Christmas, Fall, and most of Madelyn's life! I will start small with a manageable event like Christmas and maybe I won't wait a half a year to post again...

Christmas was SO FUN this year. Kyla was super excited about everything. Ellie was a great big sister during all of the festivities and Madelyn was calm and content for the most part.
 
First order of business - trying to capture a good photo for the Christmas card. This was nearly impossible. Next year I will leave it to the professionals.

 
The Happy Elephant Christmas Program NEVER disappoints. I LOVE it so much!!




 
The girls had so much fun anticipating Christmas this year. We talked a lot about the true meaning (Jesus' birthday) but all Ellie got out of it was "Jesus must really love us if we all get so many presents." We also talked about how many families don't get many presents and some families don't have very much to eat, so we shopped for Toys for Tots gifts and also shopped for a food drive. Since I don't have my act together at all, we didn't drop the toys off on time and I only remembered half of the food for the drive. Next year will be better.  

 
This year we let them open PJs on Christmas Eve. Trying to get a picture was again.. challenging. Thanks Kyla






Almost got it!




On Christmas Eve we made Rice Krispie treats for Santa


 
I woke up before everyone Christmas Day. I was relaxing in bed downstairs until I heard the pitter patter of Ellie's feet. I heard "SANTA CAME! SANTA CAME! I WAS NAUGHT BUT HE STILL CAME!!!" Too funny!
 


Poor third child gets bibs for Christmas!

 


After presents, we went to my parent's house for fondue. It was delish! We went to Scott's side a few days after Christmas for another yummy meal and more gifts. We are so blessed!!!

Thursday, July 25, 2013

2 months!

























I can't believe what a dream baby Madelyn has been so far. 3 kids is definitely not easy, but she fit right in the family without tripling the chaos.















Her loves continue to be chowing and snoozing and growing. She's already outgrown some her 6 month clothes! Yikes! I decided to stop worrying about her love for sleep and just enjoy it.












We're not exactly on a schedule, especially during the day, but I put her down around 11 pm and she sleeps until anytime between 6 and 8 the next morning. She'll wake for a feeding and then go back to sleep for awhile. She still sleeps quite a bit during the day. If she doesn't wake up, I'll wake her every two to three hours to eat. Sometimes when I go wake her up, she's already awake. Just laying there and smiling.















Often I miss her because she's always sleeping so I'll pick her up and she'll just keep sleeping while I hold her. Or she'll wake up for a few minutes and then go back to sleep. She's very soothed by motion. She likes her swing and being in her car seat (as long as it is moving). She tags along on errands just fine! Since she's so easy, and since we've had a fairly cool season, we've had quite a fun summer going out and about with 3 kids in tow. Here are some of our adventures:



Festival of the arts:
This is one of my favorite summertime activities and was counting on not being able to go since I was due May 30 and festival is always first weekend in June. My early induction combined with mild weather and a good 2-week old baby made it possible.



Whitecaps game:
I got a couple of dirty (or maybe curious) looks from people for bringing such a tiny baby. But we were in the lawn section at 5 pm on a cool, cloudy day, so what is the big deal?


Kyla decided to make friends with the people in front of us so she could steal their nice chair!












































Zoo:
The jungle bus driver said she was one of her youngest passengers!






















Grand Haven State Park:
This may have been more trouble than what it was worth but I think I'm glad we attempted it. Again, it was in the evening on a cool, cloudy, night. I think Ellie and Kyla had fun! They made us buy a season pass so maybe we'll try it again!



















We also take lots of walks and visit my parents to swim in their pool. When Scott isn't around on the weekends, my mom usually helps if I need to go anywhere with all 3 of them. I don't see trying this alone anytime soon if I can help it!!!

I have 3 weeks and 6 days left of maternity leave, so I'm trying to make the most of it! Dreading bringing her to daycare soon! The other two I don't mind -ha! Also wondering how to fit work into an extremely chaotic tired life! We'll figure it out! Lots of exclamation marks!

Thursday, July 4, 2013

1 month and counting


Here are Madelyn's 1 month stats:


23" (96%)
11lbs 8oz (86%)

She apparently loves to eat! She came into this world weighing 1 lb less than her sisters, and she already has them beat by 1 lb in only a month!

As of today, she is 6 weeks old! I don't know how the time passed so quickly yet it feels like she's been part of the family forever!

Everyone continues to adjust well.  Ellie absolutely adores her. Kyla likes to steal her pacifiers and body slam her, but she's getting better. Sometimes she help me burp her by lightly patting on her back. Then the next minute she slams her head into the baby's head.


She still sleeps all the time. It was continuous through 4 weeks and now she's up maybe an hour or less two or three times a day.


Rock and Play is the best thing ever!

Wont stay awake for tummy time


Still sleeping!





















































The sleep schedule is also getting better. She takes a feeding around 10:30 or 11 and will sleep until 4 or 5 for another feeding and go back to sleep until 7 or 8. Not too shabby!






Thursday, May 30, 2013

Happy due date Madelyn!

Hard to believe you've been in our lives a week already! During those rough first few nights I may have wondered what it would have been like if you were still in my stomach and I was napping and sleeping the day away, but now I can't get enough of your sweet snuggles.

At your 4 day check, you already gained back your birth weight plus 4 ounces! Someone sure likes to chow. You fit in well.

You are hardly awake! Not that you slept in good stretches at first. That required the purchase of a Rock N Play. All is good for now!

Your sisters adore you, especially Ellie! She is always in your face talking to you and trying to rock you in your bouncer. Kyla shows her affection by trying to lay on top of you.

You like to snuggle with your mom!

You pooped all over the photographer of your newborn shoot and about 4 feet of her studio floor. Well played girl!

Sunday, May 26, 2013

Birth Story - Madelyn Elise!

WARNING: Mildly graphic :)
Like all my other pregnancies, my BP spiked at the end, so at my 37 week appt, they put a 39 week induction on the calender. This was earlier than the first two pregnancies, but I was OK with it. It was nice to have a little over a week warning, so I could wrap up as much as possible and get prepared!

Unfortunately, two days before the big day, Kyla got the stomach flu and the next day Ellie got it as well, so I didn't have the relaxing few days prior that i was hoping for. In fact, they were sleep-free, stressful, and stinky. I spent the whole day leading up to going into the hospital doing load after load of laundry, disinfecting everything, and praying Scott and I wouldn't catch it. Fortunately we kept in the clear!  That evening, we tried our best to get to bed early since we had to wake up at 2:55 to get to the hospital on time, but I couldn't fall asleep until midnight!

Bright and EARLY the next morning, we woke up, ate some breakfast, and headed to the hospital. I was very nervous but ready! They admitted me and I just waited to start the fun! When the first nurse checked me, she was surprised they didn't have me come in the night before to start the "ripening process" and the baby still felt extremely high and I was only 1cm. She said she had no idea how my OB was going to break my water as originally planned. She said we were in for a LONG day. She actually called the on call doc because she didn't feel right about about just starting pitocin and wanted to give me the best chance to have the induction work. The on call doc agreed and they even had to do an additional ultrasound because they weren't sure if the head was even down.  Ultrasound confirmed head was down, but they decided to do some cytotec before the pitocin to help things along. The good news was that before anything started, I already had a regular contraction pattern of 5 minutes apart so they were hopeful I was ready. So from 5:30-9:30. I just hung out while the cytotec did the job. I was having lots of contractions but I was still comfortable. At 9:30, they started the pitocin and my OB visited to say he would check back around lunch to break my water. There was a bet if this was going to be a breakfast, lunch, or dinner baby, but I was just hoping for one that day. 

I felt things pick up quickly after the pitocin. Since I wasn't far, I wanted to delay the epidural as long as possible. Scott and I just hung out and watched TV. I could tell i was VERY tired because i actually passed out between a lot of the contractions. It was pretty boring and uncomfortable. Every time they checked me, it was very minimal progress.  At noon, I got my water broken and things got even more uncomfortable.  I was just hanging out around 3cm and not thinning out either. Around 2:00 I decided to get the epidural even though I was only still 3cm. I was definitely scared this was going to end up a c-section! My OB kept checking on me and was surprised things weren't moving quicker, but said he was sure things would get moving soon and when they did it would fast and furious.

Eventually I was on my third nurse for the day and getting anxious. All the nurses were wonderful though!  There had a been a few times during the day where the baby's heart rate dropped during the contractions but they were able to stabilize things by having me move positions. It was hard to move because my legs were completely numb. The epidural worked a little too well.  Usually i could still move around a bit, but I couldn't even wiggle my toes.

At 6:50, I was checked again and only 5 cm. At this point the baby's heart kept dropping and I was moving positions every 10 minutes or so. They just moved me to an almost upright position. I was watching the heart beat on the monitor and it kept completely dropping off and coming back. I was getting really nervous. All of a sudden my OB shows up and says time to have a better look at the baby. I thought it was for sure emergency c-section time. He checked me and said "oh, time to push!" so i went from a 5 to 10 in a matter of 10 minutes.  That is part of the reason the heart beat dropped off the monitor, because the baby was dropping. 

A new nurse took over and the doc was getting prepped to deliver. I wasn't sure how easy it was going to be to push. Though I could feel contractions, i could not feel my legs AT ALL. But, it only took 2 pushes and out came baby. I kept asking "WHAT IS IT" and it felt like forever before Scott said "It's a girl!" I was completely shocked but definitely happy! 7:25 pm, 22", 7lbs 13 oz. So much tinier than the other girls. Long and skinny! She is a complete little baby monkey. 



I didn't make it to the recovery room until almost 10 PM. I had a very hard time getting to the wheelchair and bed because of all the numbness. I had to be carried and I still almost fell. It wasn't until 2:30 am where I could finally take a few steps with help.  Overall the hospital stay was OK. They were maxed on capacity and their computers were down, so the nurses didn't bother me a whole lot since I already know what I'm doing. Sleep was OK the first night and horrible the second. They HIGHLY encourage nursing moms to keep the baby with them at all times but I put her in the nursery for a few hours the second night so i could catch a nap.  I also had a super nasty nurse that night, but I tried not to let it ruin my experience. I sort of got jipped on my stay after having the baby late on Thursday. I had to be out ASAP on Saturday, so I only had 4 of the delicious meals that I didn't have to cook myself :) That was probably the worst part of the experience :)

It is nice to be home! Ellie is totally taken with Madelyn and Kyla is doing better than expected.  The weather is great so I'm trying to sit outside a little while and take a few short walks.  I'm hoping that I don't go through some of the bad swelling and high blood pressure post delivery that I went through with Kyla. Don't want to end up miserable and back in the hospital. 

Kyla - 18 months!

 



Kyla! You are the cheese ball to my ham! You may not get all of the blog updates that you sister did, but we still love you to pieces.

At 18 months
  • You are starting to talk more: Hugs, book, here-ya-go, night night, milk, raisens, bye bye, hi, mmmmwah, cracker, all done, up/down, wuv-woo, thank you, bubbles, coat, shoes, socks, poop, owie, apple, gamma (grandma)
  • Nods yes or no correctly
  • Bites her friends at school
  • Gives hugs and kisses freely  

  • Runs around like a crazy lady
  • Very tough - rarely cries when hurt
  • Climbs all over the place - no fear
  • Starting to get very attached to mommy - doesn't like to share attention at all
  • Loves smiling/laughing and generally cheesing it up
  • Likes to entertain the crowd as soon as she gets acclimated
  • Watches Ellie and wants to do EVERYTHING her big sister does
  • Puts herself in time out when Ellie is in time out
  • Pretty good eater - we are thankful as she has so many food allergies! Her current favorites are my homemade apple chicken nuggets, soy yogurt, bread dipped in olive oil, soy butter cookies, avocado, daddy's special allergy pancakes
  • Finally starting to sit and pay attention in short spurts. We can occasionally read a book and she will watch a good 10 minutes of elmo!
  • Good sleeper - sleeps from 8pm-7:30 am. 
  • Stats: 33.5" (90%) 23 lb 6 oz (57%)
I am dreading how she is going to react to being a big sister. She's a little too young to grasp the concept which may make it easier???? We shall find out!




Friday, March 29, 2013

Elliesm



Ellie: Caterpillars give me cavities

Mom: Here are your carrots
Ellie: No, those are for bunnies

Mom: Oh Ellie, I don't know
Ellie: No, say I don't YES

Mom: Milk makes you grow tall and strong
Ellie: No it makes me tinkle

Ellie: Mom, I'm not wearing panties!!
(screamed at me when i picked her up from daycare as she proceeded to pull pants down in front of everyone to show me)

Ellie: Are your husbands at work?
To grandma and mommy when were were going out for breakfast: